Hey, contradiction is normal. We as humans all have a contradictory component in the repertoire of assessment and solution generating part of our brains. Should I or shouldn’t I? Yes or nor or maybe. With new information blah, blah, blah. It’s never ending. Changing one’s mind, once seen as a woman’s right in a laughable way, like she was frivolous to begin with, is turning out to be one of the most valued and sought after tools of survival in any trade or endeavor.
Changing with the times as long as it’s beneficial to all is required. It’s the stubborn ones who on one hand keep us grounded, while on the other hand, keep us stuck in a bad place when there’s a better one available now. Stickers don’t like that word NOW. They’re the ones who put everybody else in danger, when catastrophe strikes. You don’t always have to ask why, when you know tomorrow will bring about different choices.
Embrace your contradictions. You’ve no choice but to live with them as guides to a better future. Your criticizers just can’t keep up. All options under consideration require the presence of contradictions. It’s the nature of the beast. Acknowledge that one can’t survive absent contradictions. They are bridges to your ultimate goals, even when you don’t yet know the goal.